Made to Crave – Week 3 {Making a Plan}

by Barbie on January 27, 2012

in Healthy Living

Today we are sharing our thoughts on Chapter 3 of Made to Crave.  If you wrote a post, will you link up here so that we can encourage one another on our journey?

I love looking at other people’s gardens.  I love to smell the beautiful flowers that grow in the yards of others.  As I walk by, I silently say to myself, “I would love to have a beautiful garden like that”.  I can’t wish it into being.  Growing a beautiful and thriving garden takes work.  It takes sacrifice, effort and determination.  A gardener must put in a lot of time and commitment before he ever sees the fruit of his labor.

Isn’t healthy living just like this?  If I am to see the results that my heart desires, I must be willing to work hard, sacrifice and fight for those results.  Most days, I simply lack the motivation and desire.  I want results, but why am I unwilling to do the work?

Ouch!  A lot has to change inside of me if I am going to pursue this with passion.

I want to be thinner, but I refuse to be obedient to the Lord and exercise self-control in my food choices.

I try to blame it on the fact that I am over 40, or that I have a slow metabolism, or that I am going through “the change”.

All of my grumbling and complaining will only make reaching my goal that much harder, or next to impossible.  The Israelites wandered in the desert for 40 years, and never entered the promised land.  Would things have been different if they had only surrendered their will to the Lord’s?  Perhaps.

If I am ever to reach my goals concerning health and weight loss, I must be willing to give up some things.  I must be willing to submit my will to God’s will, to surrender my desires for earthly fulfillment into His hands.

“I was too dependent on food for comfort and saw no need for a long-term discipline plan for my eating.  I wanted to eat what I wanted, when I wanted, in the quantities I wanted.” -Made to Crave.

Poor issues with food not only affect my waistline, but my overall energy level and well-being.  If I am to be successful, I must have a plan.  If I do not have a plan, I will fail.  This journey will not be an easy one.  It will require time, effort and sacrifice.   It may mean throwing myself in a corner so that I can have a good cry from time to time.  But I will pick myself back up.  I refuse to look at this as a journey of self-denial.  I want to look at it as a journey of promise, to see all of the possibilities that await me when I choose to embrace healthy choices.

So, where do I go from here?  This week I am taking time to be intentional in praying for myself, asking the Lord what His plan is.  I feel that I know what it is He is asking of me.  And perhaps, I am dragging my feet, but I am sure I will come around.  My daughter is getting married in 5 months, and I have a goal to lose 40-50bls.  Can I do it?  No.  But WITH GOD, all things are possible!  Where I am weak, He is strong.

But he said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore I will boast all the more gladly of my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may rest upon me.  (2 Corinthians 12:9)

How about you?  How are you doing this week?  How do you feel about having a plan in regards to health and weight loss?  How can I pray for you this week?

Be sure to stop over to visit Venessa and give her some encouragement this week.

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Life’s An Adventure

by Barbie on January 26, 2012

in Faith Barista Jam

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Today over at Bonnie’s place, we are discussing this One Word:

Adventure -
an unusual and exciting, typically hazardous, experience or activity.

Life is filled with uncertainty.  This road underneath my feet is not always smooth.  My eyesight is often blurred, and at times, it’s too dark to see in front of me.  There are bumps in the road, huge boulders at times, sudden twists and hairpin turns.  And in the most extreme cases, the adventure is slowed to a near stop with roadblocks, detours and sudden drops.

But I am learning to embrace the adventure.  Setting out to accomplish what is still unclear can be exciting.  I want to walk intentionally to the other side, conquering obstacles along the way and overcoming any curve balls tossed onto the road.

I can’t always see where I am going.  The wind blows so fiercely upon my face at times that I have to close my eyes.  Yet still I walk, unhindered by the elements that try to stop me in my tracks.  And I lean, pressing into the One who is my strength, because I know I cannot arrive at my destination without Him.

My soul clings to you; your right hand upholds me.  (Psalm 63:8)

When we take the hand of the greatest Tour Guide ever and choose to trust Him, a life full of uncertainty is quickly turned into one of living with excitement and joy.  This One, He doesn’t need a map or a compass.  He never gets lost, and He always leads us and guides us safely, steering us clear of pot holes, falling rocks, and cliffs.  His eyesight is keen.  He can see for miles.  He protects us from the scorching sun, the perilous winds, and the dry waste lands.  He brings water and nourishment along the way.  He is confident in His leadership ability.  He knows exactly where He is going and He is faithful to bring us there.

My bags are packed.  I’ve got my passport.  I may not know where I am going, but I am certain that I will arrive safely.

How about you?  Are you ready to take the hand of this One who will never lead you astray along life’s adventure?

And the LORD will guide you continually and satisfy your desire in scorched places and make your bones strong; and you shall be like a watered garden, like a spring of water, whose waters do not fail.  (Isaiah 58:11)

 

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The Big Reveal!

January 25, 2012

Welcome to my new space! Do you love it?  I do!  Although I adored my old header and was somewhat sad to see it go, I really wanted to focus on simplicity and content.  And just so you know, I still love coffee!  That is one thing that will never change.  You will notice a [...]

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What Do I Have To Give?

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I‘ve been struggling for words lately.  My brain seems full of them, yet as soon as I begin to write I lose those words.  Fleeting thoughts as some would call them.  I can’t seem to grab onto them, to articulate them so as to write clearly.  I feel as if I am striving too much, [...]

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